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 I am a free spirit writer. I write what I feel, in happy moments, in sad moments, and yet depressing ones. My blog represents how I think about things, I dont write to impress. I write to express. I am trying to express myself what half my world is exploding with emotional thoughts. |
LDR - Long Distance Relationship, who said it's not even worth a try.
20120122 | Sunday, January 22, 2012
Distance is not for the fearful, it is for the bold. It's for those who are willing to spend a lot of time a lone in exchange for a little time with the one they love. It's for those knowing a good thing when they see it, even if they don't see it nearly enough. Everyday, on this particular planet called earth. Millions and millions of people have no choice but to deal with being miles apart from their loved ones. To be true, some people think it's downright absurd and bound for a break up sooner or later. But not for me. I often find long distance relationship as a challenge. There's always some certain advantage being miles apart from your loved ones. Only some people fails to see it. But again, depends on your own way of making it positive instead of always thinking it as something bad. If you're willing to take the risk, go on. Maintain the long distance relationship you're facing and prove anybody who thought that it won't work out. As what they always say, distance makes the heart grows fonder. I often have this thought in my head, the more far apart you are from the people you love, the more it makes you realize that you shall appreciate their existence. Untuk ada dengan engkau dalam susah dan senang walaupun dipisahkan oleh jarak yang beribu batu itu bukan kerja yang senang. Serious, bukan senang. Distance should not be the basis of ending a relationship. Distance should be defied and considered as a test to make the bond stronger more than ever. I know some part of it seems hard. But, as what I said, some things are worth a try. Aku tahu, kadang kadang, or even. Most of the time, kalau dah berjauhan rasa ragu ragu tu selalu wujud menyetan dalam diri kita. Kadang kadang, nak control pun susah. Pasti ada juga sekali dua terlintas, 'jujur ke dia bila aku tiada'. Mempersoalkan benda tu tak salah. But, ada batasnya. Sebab, kalau kau sayang tapi tak ada kepercayaan,apa gunanya kan ? Trust plays an important part between two people who loves each other. Bila kita tgh susah, orang yang jauh tu memang tak dapat membantu kita 100 percent all the way. Most of the time, kadang kadang ada dari segi mental. Untuk ada physically tu, jarang. But there's still ada yang sanggup merentas jauh jauh just to be with you in bad times. And kalau dah ada yang macamtu tapi tak reti appreciate juga, aku pun taktahu kata apa. Some people find this hard, very hard. And there are times you feel fucked up all the way. But to be true, distance is just a little something in this relationship. Kalau benda yang tak berapa nak besar macam jarak jauh pun kau susah nak handle, apa tah lagi yang besar dan complicated. Think about it. Hidup ni, tak selamanya melekat. Ada juga kita berjauhan at times. Ajar lah diri tu untuk menahan rindu, kumpul rindu tu banyak banyak. Bila jumpa, rasa cinta tu macam makin membuak buak. Tak semua nya yang ada dekat indah di mata kita. Long Distance Relationships. Some might end with a break up, and some might end marrying the love of their life. As for me, as what I've seen in my real life. My own brother who has been loving the same girl for 8 years, since highschool, to college seperated with something called distance, can never be a reason for them to end the relationship. At the end of the day, he married the love of his life. Now that's bliss. Let me take it this way. If you're willing to take the risk, take it. There are times that it's worth a try, or even if it doesn't end up the way you want it, make it as an experience in life. But trust me, if you can go through this problem called long-distance, there are so much more than you can bare with. As for me, I've overcome all the long-distance relationship that I ever had. And all of it, was something to be remembered for. Something wonderful even if it has it's own lessons. If there is tomorrow when we're not together. There is something you must always remember. You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think. But the most important thing is, even if we're apart, I will always be with you. Labels: a lovers rhapsody. |
